where IS the chapstick?!

Okay so I watched this video a long time ago, and i find it hilarious.

I dont find it funny because i am making FUN of her, but because i feel she obviously made this video to be humourous, or else she wouldnt have made it.

the comments people post on her video though upset me. some people write "whereeee's the treadmill?" like, she is overweight, and im sure shes not oblivious to that either, but its also cyberbullying and thats unacceptable, pretty much.

I've heard she has a mental disability, and thats never something to make fun of, that makes me sick because that is something that is completely out of her control.

anyways, watch (:

Nicholas Sparks

Here are some of my favorite quotes! :) enjoy!


The Notebook- Nicholas Sparks

"I love you. I am who I am because of you. You are every reason, every hope, and every dream I've ever had, and no matter what happens to us in the future, everyday we are together is the greatest day of my life. I will always be yours. "
"So it's not gonna be easy. It's going to be really hard; we're gonna have to work at this everyday, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, everyday. You and me... everyday."
"You are my best friend as well as my lover, and I do not know which side of you I enjoy the most. I treasure each side, just as I have treasured our life together."
"You are the answer to every prayer I've offered. You are a song, a dream, a whisper, and I don't know how I could have lived without you for as long as I have."
"They didn’t agree on much. In fact, they didn’t agree on anything. They fought all the time and challenged each other ever day. But despite their differences, they had one important thing in common. They were crazy about each other."

^ The reason I chose to blog about these quotes is because the notebook is one of my favorite movies/books.  I really like all the love quotes that Nicholas Sparks comes up with.  They basically describe alot in my life and they're really insightful.  He is also one of my favorite authors.

"You can't live your life for other people. You've got to do what's right for you, even if it hurts some people you love."

^ This quote I found really helpful, I've found myself in situations where I'm too focused on other peoples feelings and I dont pay enough attention to my own.  I've realized that I need to stop worrying so much about how it will affect others and do what's right for me. Sometimes you just need to focus on your own needs and what will push you further ahead in life, so you don't get stuck behind.

Dear John- Nicholas Sparks

"When you're struggling with something, look at all the people around you and realize that every single person you see is struggling with something, and to them, it's just as hard as what you're going through."

^ This quote really shows that you have to take a look into other peoples lives.  Your problems arn't the end or the world, nor the most important.  Someone out there always has it worse than you. 

"It's possible to go on, no matter how impossible it seems, and that in time, the grief . . . lessens. It may not go away completely, but after a while it's not so overwhelming."

^ Alot of things happen in our lives that we feel we cannot get past.  Life does not throw things at you that you can;t handle, even though its tough.  Things such as loss of a loved one, broken heart, ect.  These are all painful things that we have to deal with, and even though at the time it feels too much to handle and you feel like you can't make it, you have to keep pushing through, because that's what makes you stronger. 


The Last Song- Nicholas Sparks

"Sometimes you have to be apart from people you love, but that doesn't make you love them any less. Sometimes you love them more."

^ 'Friendship isn't about being inseperable, it's about being separated and nothing changes.' <3


"you have to love something before you can hate it."

^ It's true. you DO have to love something before you can hate it.  It's the same way with people, you have to learn to love them before you can hate them.  If you don't take the time to get to know someone, you have no right to automatically judge them or label them a bad person, you can't automatically hate someone.

"They didn’t agree on much. In fact, they didn’t agree on anything. They fought all the time and challenged each other ever day. But despite their differences, they had one important thing in common. They were crazy about each other."
^ <3